Catastrophizing
Catastrophizing is the mental habit of jumping to the worst plausible outcome and treating it as the likely one: magnifying what could go wrong, and underestimating your ability to cope if it did.
What it looks like
A late reply becomes "they're angry with me" becomes "the friendship is over." A headache becomes something serious. One missed deadline becomes a ruined career. The chain runs fast, each link feels reasonable, and only the destination shows how far the story travelled from the evidence.
What the research says
Catastrophizing is well enough studied to have its own standard measure, developed in pain research, where the tendency to magnify, ruminate on, and feel helpless about a threat turned out to strongly shape how bad the experience actually gets. (Sullivan et al., Psychological Assessment, 1995)
The honest part
The antidote is not forced positivity; the worst case is occasionally real. It is proportion: asking what the most likely outcome is, and what you would actually do if the bad one happened. Coping plans shrink catastrophes faster than reassurance does.
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